Sparkle reports: “There is so much to pick up when you are doing a quick visit with a toddler home.”
Sparkle was pleased to visit the Dog Cookie Drive-thru again…
Next stop — California. For a wedding — but not Sparkle’s!
Because Children Matter
The topic in one of my classes this week is Practice with Children. Therefore, my mind has been on children and the reality that all of us have — or should have — an interest in children being raised well. We are, after all, collectively creating our successors.
I am in Boise this weekend to both visit children, large and small, and to compete with dogs — two of my most favorite things.
I have visited Boise at least once each month since Galen and Bethany moved here two years ago, determined that Berkeley and then Lincoln would know me. I want to give credit to Galen and Bethany for tolerating my visits, and to Dear Husband who is always willing to manage things at home so I can do this.
Because of my frequent visits, I am in an informed position to say that my daughter-in-law is — or should be — a role model to all other young moms out there.
Galen photo
Bethany is an intentional, thoughtful, and amazing mother to Berkeley and Lincoln. Her parenting skills are stellar, and the understanding of child development she brings to her everyday interactions with those two small humans reminds me constantly of the importance of education to effective parenting.
She parents with wisdom. Instead of arguing with an almost three-year-old, Bethany knows to offer choices.
Bethany creates opportunities for positive and desired behaviors, and avoids setting her children up to have unnecessary meltdowns. There are schedules and boundaries and limits so that each child has the freedom to grow, learn, and just become within spaces that are safe and appropriate for his/her developmental realities.
The children in this little family are managed with love and appropriate limits — inflicting pain through physical “corrections” is not part of Bethany and Galen’s parenting toolkit. I am so grateful for their awareness that using pro-social parenting techniques encourages similar behavior in children.
Galen photo.
Parenting is not actually a private endeavor — it has implications for ALL of us because we all live with the consequences. Therefore, we need to be intentional and smart with policies and practices to support and educate parents — for the benefit of children, families, and the communities in which they exist.
Bethany and Galen are raising children in ways that maximize the odds Berkeley and Lincoln will make positive contributions to our shared world. They are taking what they appreciate from their own childhood, and appropriately and kindly rejecting what was not done well. As a result, they are embarked on their own wise, loving, smart, intentional — and imperfect — parenting journey.
It is an absolute joy to watch.
All Kinds of Fun
What fun to have the Heintzbergers living so close to Galen and Bethany!
Not only are Cindy and Vic now Idaho residents, but so are daughter Kira and her family — this is her youngest, Aubrey, with Berkeley.
And John and his family also just moved there!!!!
Sparkle being edged out by a possessive Heidi.
And that means so did Heidi from the H Moon Litter!
Named for the original Almighty Heidi, Heidi is glorious and wonderful in all ways.
These are two photos Galen took of Sparkle at Lucky Peak State Park near Boise — you can follow Galen’s photos at instagram.com/galen_henseler
Congratulations to Team Jordan (Sparkler) on a great show weekend, including a really nice Best of Breed win! And her Uncle Tristan (iPups) earned yet another QQ (agility) — we certainly have a versatile family ❤️
Progesterone testing begins on Thursday.