Getting To Yes

Training Tip: Word of the Day is REDIRECT.

Moonshadow Wally Neil

Moonshadow Wally Neil

No” or “Don’t do that” creates a focus on the undesired behavior and also opens up a void — what is the puppy or human supposed to do instead?

When you see or experience an undesired behavior, shift immediately to “Do this instead.

Maple Moonshadow hard at work as a Therapy Puppy.

Maple Moonshadow hard at work as a Therapy Puppy.

Capella likes to chew my desk chair. If I give her an error message like “NO!” how is she to understand what I am telling her? Am I saying NO! for her desire to be close to me? For quietly hanging out and chewing?

Capella and Karma

Capella and Karma

And seriously — how fair is it to tell a teething baby not to chew?!

My strategy — reach down and give her an alternative to my chair, and push her a few inches away with the new chew thing so the chair is not so easily in reach.

If she goes back to the chair, clearly my alternative was not a good one so I try something more chew-worthy.

No error message. No drama. Just redirection. Easy peasy.

Capella having some Mom Time.

Capella having some Mom Time.

No” should be banned from our puppy vocabulary. Instead, get to “YES” by using smart redirection.

Bright Stars Atlas Sun and Dallas Nova Jr.

Bright Stars Atlas Sun and Dallas Nova Jr.

Have a positive day!

Puppies!

Training Tip

Goal: I want my puppy to learn her name and to respond to it (look/come towards me).

How: Most of the kibble I feed will be as training treats. I toss one piece of kibble on the floor near her and take 1 - 2 steps back. As she finishes the piece of kibble, I say, “pup-pup-Pellie” and when she looks/starts to come to me I begin the praising and hand her a second piece of kibble when she reaches me.

Repeat over and over in 30-or-so second sessions 3 - 4 times a day.

What to do if she doesn’t respond? Evaluate what I did wrong. Did I toss the food too far? Are there too many distractions? Did I call her before she finished the treat? Is my voice not happy and friendly enough?

Capella’s First Easter

Capella’s First Easter

Let’s check-in with some of the puppies…

Moonshadow Andy and his Squad in Texas

Moonshadow Andy and his Squad in Texas

Margie (Ariel) Moonshadow in Pennsylvania  #coffeewithclark #morningswithmargie

Margie (Ariel) Moonshadow in Pennsylvania #coffeewithclark #morningswithmargie

Wally Neil in Washington

Wally Neil in Washington

Tobie James Perseus in Sun Valley, Idaho (and Eugene, Oregon)

Tobie James Perseus in Sun Valley, Idaho (and Eugene, Oregon)

Maple Portia in Stevensville, MT

Maple Portia in Stevensville, MT

Sage Mirak with Uncle Lucas (Sparkler) in Phoenix

Sage Mirak with Uncle Lucas (Sparkler) in Phoenix

McCovey Sirius and Adam in Truckee, California

McCovey Sirius and Adam in Truckee, California

Porter Buck near Boise, Idaho

Porter Buck near Boise, Idaho

Kash Kale in Maryland

Kash Kale in Maryland

Fauci Orion in Maryland after a playdate with Kash

Fauci Orion in Maryland after a playdate with Kash

Zuber Heze in New Hampshire

Zuber Heze in New Hampshire

Three puppies in one photo! Moonshadow Obie Hunter and Bright Stars Dallas Nova Jr. and Atlas Sun after a playdate near Boise, Idaho.

Three puppies in one photo! Moonshadow Obie Hunter and Bright Stars Dallas Nova Jr. and Atlas Sun after a playdate near Boise, Idaho.

Xeena Zaniah at home in Canada

Xeena Zaniah at home in Canada

Scout Arche in Washington

Scout Arche in Washington

Easter is a perfect day to reflect on all the New Beginnings and the promises held therein.

Happy Easter.

Home

The puppies and I left Fillmore, Utah at 5:30 a.m. and headed for Salt Lake City where my fully vaccinated status made it safe for me to meet and hold my newest grandson, Jake Jr.

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He is so perfect.

Vaccinations are not yet a ticket for normal life to resume but they do create more safe spaces around us, and that is so wonderful.

The puppies played while I held the baby and when they were ready to fall back asleep, it was time to load up and head north.

The next Puppy Play Stop was courtesy of Lucy Clover King and her wonderful family in Idaho Falls…

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Lucy is a Wildflower, and so is Metis’s half-sister and aunt to Lyra and Capella.

These puppies have been Rock Stars with the travel and all the new people…

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The girls even trained the puppies to walk on a new surface!!

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Thank you to Lucy and her family for the wonderful visit — it was great to see all them.

Tired from the playdate, the puppies slept the rest of the way home. In the past six days, I have driven 2800+ miles on puppy transport adventures!

And speaking of adventures, there is another one tomorrow — an epic adventure!