The Importance of Expectations

Today the Bright Stars met the Cato Board.

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The first thing they did was chew/mouth it. Of course they did — that is how puppies explore the world.

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Like human babies, everything goes in their mouths and this includes each other — and the humans.

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Mouthing, biting, and chewing is normal and appropriate behavior for a puppy. In fact, it would be a bad sign if a puppy (or human infant) did not put everything in their mouth.

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We can no more stop puppy mouthing and chewing than we can stop human babies from putting everything in their mouths.

Nova Jr.

Nova Jr.

And we shouldn’t even try — unless we want to raise a neurotic puppy or child.

Definitely not neurotic Moonshadows

Definitely not neurotic Moonshadows

When puppies are in their Baby Shark phase, we do two things. First, we redirect the puppy chewing to things we can both agree on.

Second, we allow mouthing on hands for the purpose of teaching bite inhibition. It is easy — when the puppy bites too hard, we shriek. This conveys to the puppy: OUCH!!!!!!! If the puppy continues to be rough, we do the mother dog thing — and this may surprise you…

Claire and Orion

Claire and Orion

When a puppy is playing too rough or generally being unruly, a mother dog simply leaves. That is it: she just removes herself from the puppy.

Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Mother dogs are kind to their babies.

Claire and Capella

Claire and Capella

Littermates also educate about bite inhibition. When a puppy is too rough with another, we all know it and the offending puppy gets the message.

Playtime at the Moonshadows

Playtime at the Moonshadows

Having realistic expectations of puppies, dogs, kids, each other — and ourselves — is so important. We create frustration and disappointment when we fail to have informed and reasonable expectations, and nobody deserves to live with all that.

The other new thing with the Bright Stars is a crate.

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At nighttime, all items are removed from the puppy areas for two reasons. First, it is safer that way, even though Dear Husband continues to be up with them overnight. Second, we want the puppies to understand that we sleep at night and play during the day (except for Dear Husband, of course).

The Moonshadows have new items today as well.

Moonshadows

Moonshadows

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Titan: Can I tell you a secret?

Buck: Of course.

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Titan: I weigh two pounds today!

#gotitan

Have a terrific day!

Evening Pics

Heze

Heze

Ariel

Ariel

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