Dogs have a lot to teach us. I believe that. Yesterday I did a webinar about this very topic.
But in order for the lessons to be positive and prosocial ones, there needs to be a skillful adult translator between the dog and the children. This is why I am so very careful about the placement of puppies in homes with children — because not every parent has the willingness, time, and skill set to be that translator.
When an adult caregiver understands the family dog as an object lesson in responsibility, effective communication, loyalty, and so many other qualities that enhance adulting, things go well for the dog. In the absence of an intentional adult, children may well learn maladaptive life skills through their experiences with the disposable, unimportant family dog — and the dog suffers.
Moonshadow Wally lives with children because their mom, Samantha, is one of those skillful translators who — with her Dear Husband — is raising children and a puppy in mindful, intentional ways.
Moonshadow Wally Montana
Samantha sends us this report on now six-month-old Wally Montana:
He’s truly the most loving puppy we have ever known…so eager to please, loves people, and so happy to be loved on by everyone! He hasn’t met a stranger, and will gladly accept love and belly rubs from every person we meet.
He’s a great (ravenous!) eater, and will come running when he hears the word treat. He LOVES his stuffed animals, and takes one outside with him every morning when he goes out to to potty.
He has quickly become acquainted with every air vent in the house, and prefers to lay on the cold bricks in front of the fireplace in the family room. We might keep the air conditioning a little colder, just for him. ;)
He’s obedient, and attentive, and just the very best boy. We can’t imagine life without him and we are so happy he’s ours! We just all love him more than we could ever express.
Thank you, Samantha! Wally is adorable — and lucky.
Every puppy I place in a home with children is there because I believe the adults have that translator mindset. They understand that the life of the family dog is a reflection of the skills, values, and attributes they hope to instill in their children. I am happy to contribute a puppy to this type of family because I know the dog will have a wonderful life, and I will have the absolute joy of watching terrific children grow into amazing adults. #winwin